Musings on toxic monogamy.

I know I am quite late to the game at this point, as a result of not writing for the past few months, but I wanted to really dive into my feeling on the subject, with relation to mono/poly relationships. Those of you familiar with my old blog will be familiar with the term, but…

The 14-year-old theory

“Have I told you my theory on why life is so tough?” We’re told constantly that we need to be more mature, and yet biologically, we tend to hit our peak within our teen years, just as puberty is coming to an end: no major stressors, but technically an adult… So the theory is this:…

The store is live!

https://hetaera.lemonstand.com/ It’s been a long time coming and there are still quite a few things I have to figure out, but the store is up! Plans going forward: get it working smoothly. Add new products from various retailers, maybe smaller ones Tee shirt designs and other merch. A monthly subscription service. What I need from…

Praise the sun!

Summer is upon us and with the sun comes sex- specifically outdoor sexiness. Just 6 days ago, two men and a woman were arrested for having sex on a roof. And yet… I am tempted more now than I have been at any point previously to break out the rope bag and head into the…

Joy

Apparently kink is what makes me happy, is what brings me joy.