Risk and idiocy in the kink sceneThink about the last interaction where someone was annoying as hell and you struggled to have a conversation in a civil manner, had to choke back on raising your voice. Think about the last time you heard a story about a community leader who broke consent. Think about the…
What Pokemon GO can teach us about relationships (and life?)
Aside from the obvious STD joke (Gotta catch ’em all?), I like to think that there is a fundamentally sound underlying message which we can learn from the game.For those of you who live under a rock, in a cave, on Mars and have done for the past two decades; Pokemon GO is an augmented…
Episode 3: BDSM bags and fuckboys
“Don’t be a fuckboy, Don’t, Don’t be a fuckboy, Do-oh-oh-on’t be a fuck boyyyyy…”
How to have more casual sex
The difference in interest for casual sex is negligible. Clark and Hatfield had one pretty major flaw in their study.
Is Polyamory for you?
I decided to create a bit of a question list for you to sit down and ponder, to decide whether non-monogamy is really something you should be trying out *at this time*.
Episode 2: News Items
A very quick episode looking at recent news in BDSM and poly. Pick this week was yellsos.org; Check them out.
What the animal kingdom can teach us about relationships – All about the Bees
It should come as no surprise when I say that some research out there has come to false conclusions about monogamy in the animal kingdom. Poly people talking to mono people will often hear phrases like ‘It’s not natural. You don’t find that in the animal world.’ One example that people are quick to cite…
The Pawd Cats! E1: Jealousy
Jealousy sucks. You know it, I know it, the cats know it.
And we’re (finally) back!
Sorry to everyone for the month of silence: BT dropped the ball and we are only now back online in a steady capacity. Recording has started for the podcast with episode 1 due to go out next week on everyone’s favourite topic: Jealousy. Want to be in the podcast? Got any questions, comments or advice?…
What famous historical figures can teach us about relationships…
What you may not think about when talking about Einstein is BDSM, though I am sure there is a particular Fetish for that out there…
Poly and the future
Regardless of whether poly relationships are going to be legally recognised, securing the rights of those practicing alternative lifestyles will be an interesting one
Self care
Sorry for the silence these last couple of weeks: I was unable to breathe due to a chest infection, which led to my having no energy to get a piece up. Combine that with the moving and everything, you can see how busy I have been.
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