Musings on toxic monogamy.

I know I am quite late to the game at this point, as a result of not writing for the past few months, but I wanted to really dive into my feeling on the subject, with relation to mono/poly relationships. Those of you familiar with my old blog will be familiar with the term, but…

The 14-year-old theory

“Have I told you my theory on why life is so tough?” We’re told constantly that we need to be more mature, and yet biologically, we tend to hit our peak within our teen years, just as puberty is coming to an end: no major stressors, but technically an adult… So the theory is this:…

The store is live!

https://hetaera.lemonstand.com/ It’s been a long time coming and there are still quite a few things I have to figure out, but the store is up! Plans going forward: get it working smoothly. Add new products from various retailers, maybe smaller ones Tee shirt designs and other merch. A monthly subscription service. What I need from…

Fight and flight.

There are many points in my life where I have felt backed into a corner over something, where that fight or flight feeling kicks in. I have always tried to take it, and just move on to the next thing, but what happens when neither are a viable option?  When your opponent is higher up…

What we know vs what we need to know

Did you know that there are seven different kinds of intelligence? Linguistic—good with words Mathematical—good at numbers Musical—good with rhythm and sound Visual-Spatial—good at thinking in three dimensions Bodily-Kinesthetic—good at physical activity Intrapersonal—good at understanding oneself Interpersonal—good at interacting with other people The problem with conventional education is that most schools only teach the first…