Praise the sun!

Summer is upon us and with the sun comes sex- specifically outdoor sexiness. Just 6 days ago, two men and a woman were arrested for having sex on a roof. And yet… I am tempted more now than I have been at any point previously to break out the rope bag and head into the…

Joy

Apparently kink is what makes me happy, is what brings me joy.

Fight and flight.

There are many points in my life where I have felt backed into a corner over something, where that fight or flight feeling kicks in. I have always tried to take it, and just move on to the next thing, but what happens when neither are a viable option?  When your opponent is higher up…

The DSM

The new DSM specifies that in order for an atypical sexual behavior to be classified as a mental condition, a person must: 1. Feel personal distress about their interest, not merely distress resulting from society’s disapproval; or 2. have a sexual desire or behavior that involves another person’s psychological distress, injury, or death, or a…