Apparently kink is what makes me happy, is what brings me joy.
“There are two types of people on planet Earth, Batman and Iron Man. Batman has a secret identity, right? So Bruce Wayne has to walk around every second of every day knowing that if somebody finds out his secret, his family is dead, his friends are dead, everyone he loves gets tortured to death by…
-Re-examining an old blog post, May 5, 2013 So back in 2013, a partner of mine asked me the rhetorical question ‘where is the boundary that differentiates relationships from friendships?’ Three and a half years later, I am sat using a fantastic polyamory specific visual representation of relationships, and once again, I am wondering where the…
5 Signs you may be polyamorous
5 signs you may be polyamorous Nita, the head organiser of Polyday suggested during our recording of the last podcast episode that I write a piece called ‘ten signs that you may be polyamorous.’ Well I don’t necessarily have ten points which I can put here, but I do have five common traits which I…
E4.5 Polyday Competition
https://www.podbean.com/media/player/26n5e-625a03?from=yiiadmin&skin=9&download=0&share=1&fonts=Helvetica&auto=0 Ok. So through Patreon Support, we have enough money set aside to give away three tickets for Polyday. To enter, we am looking for people to send a voice recording of their favourite poly story. It can be happy, it can be sad, it can be dramatic, it can be a teachable moment, it…
Podcast E4: Polyamory Questions, Polyday and Fetlife
https://www.podbean.com/media/player/qf5ky-6232b9?skin=11 This episode: The 10 most commonly asked questions regarding Polyamory, an interview with the two main names behind polyday (polyday.org.uk) about this year’s event a report on the recent changes to Fetlife’s sign-up policy. Polyday tickets can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/polyday-2016-london-tickets-24365709493 Sorry for the radio silence for the past month, and a huge thank you to everyone…
Episode 3: BDSM bags and fuckboys
“Don’t be a fuckboy, Don’t, Don’t be a fuckboy, Do-oh-oh-on’t be a fuck boyyyyy…”
Is Polyamory for you?
I decided to create a bit of a question list for you to sit down and ponder, to decide whether non-monogamy is really something you should be trying out *at this time*.
Episode 2: News Items
A very quick episode looking at recent news in BDSM and poly. Pick this week was yellsos.org; Check them out.
What the animal kingdom can teach us about relationships – All about the Bees
It should come as no surprise when I say that some research out there has come to false conclusions about monogamy in the animal kingdom. Poly people talking to mono people will often hear phrases like ‘It’s not natural. You don’t find that in the animal world.’ One example that people are quick to cite…
The Pawd Cats! E1: Jealousy
Jealousy sucks. You know it, I know it, the cats know it.
And we’re (finally) back!
Sorry to everyone for the month of silence: BT dropped the ball and we are only now back online in a steady capacity. Recording has started for the podcast with episode 1 due to go out next week on everyone’s favourite topic: Jealousy. Want to be in the podcast? Got any questions, comments or advice?…