“Have I told you my theory on why life is so tough?” We’re told constantly that we need to be more mature, and yet biologically, we tend to hit our peak within our teen years, just as puberty is coming to an end: no major stressors, but technically an adult… So the theory is this:…
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Headwinds and Tailwinds.
We all have days where we believe that the deck is stacked against us. This is why rich people will tell you ‘money doesn’t bring happiness’
Anxiety: death by a thousand paper cuts.
Anxiety sucks: It’s like the feeling of every mistake you’ve ever made having turned into a scarab beetle which is now crawling around under your skin, eating away at your insides, while depression is the feeling of having already been eaten. There is a massive overlap (“Nearly one-half of those diagnosed with depression are also…
5 Signs you may be polyamorous
5 signs you may be polyamorous Nita, the head organiser of Polyday suggested during our recording of the last podcast episode that I write a piece called ‘ten signs that you may be polyamorous.’ Well I don’t necessarily have ten points which I can put here, but I do have five common traits which I…
E4.5 Polyday Competition
https://www.podbean.com/media/player/26n5e-625a03?from=yiiadmin&skin=9&download=0&share=1&fonts=Helvetica&auto=0 Ok. So through Patreon Support, we have enough money set aside to give away three tickets for Polyday. To enter, we am looking for people to send a voice recording of their favourite poly story. It can be happy, it can be sad, it can be dramatic, it can be a teachable moment, it…
Podcast E4: Polyamory Questions, Polyday and Fetlife
https://www.podbean.com/media/player/qf5ky-6232b9?skin=11 This episode: The 10 most commonly asked questions regarding Polyamory, an interview with the two main names behind polyday (polyday.org.uk) about this year’s event a report on the recent changes to Fetlife’s sign-up policy. Polyday tickets can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/polyday-2016-london-tickets-24365709493 Sorry for the radio silence for the past month, and a huge thank you to everyone…
Why community leaders sometimes break consent
Risk and idiocy in the kink sceneThink about the last interaction where someone was annoying as hell and you struggled to have a conversation in a civil manner, had to choke back on raising your voice. Think about the last time you heard a story about a community leader who broke consent. Think about the…
How to have more casual sex
The difference in interest for casual sex is negligible. Clark and Hatfield had one pretty major flaw in their study.
Is Polyamory for you?
I decided to create a bit of a question list for you to sit down and ponder, to decide whether non-monogamy is really something you should be trying out *at this time*.
What the animal kingdom can teach us about relationships – All about the Bees
It should come as no surprise when I say that some research out there has come to false conclusions about monogamy in the animal kingdom. Poly people talking to mono people will often hear phrases like ‘It’s not natural. You don’t find that in the animal world.’ One example that people are quick to cite…
The Pawd Cats! E1: Jealousy
Jealousy sucks. You know it, I know it, the cats know it.
And we’re (finally) back!
Sorry to everyone for the month of silence: BT dropped the ball and we are only now back online in a steady capacity. Recording has started for the podcast with episode 1 due to go out next week on everyone’s favourite topic: Jealousy. Want to be in the podcast? Got any questions, comments or advice?…
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