Differences Between Kinks and Fetishes.

I talk a lot about fetishes and kinks on Hetaera. A lot of people have approached me over the years questioning if their particular fantasies are “normal” especially when they are typically seen as being “weird”. But what is normal? Let’s start by defining fetishism and kink: — The World Health Organisation defines “fetishism” as:…

Podcast E4: Polyamory Questions, Polyday and Fetlife

https://www.podbean.com/media/player/qf5ky-6232b9?skin=11 This episode: The 10 most commonly asked questions regarding Polyamory, an interview with the two main names behind polyday (polyday.org.uk) about this year’s event a report on the recent changes to Fetlife’s sign-up policy.  Polyday tickets can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/polyday-2016-london-tickets-24365709493  Sorry for the radio silence for the past month, and a huge thank you to everyone…

Why community leaders sometimes break consent

Risk and idiocy in the kink sceneThink about the last interaction where someone was annoying as hell and you struggled to have a conversation in a civil manner, had to choke back on raising your voice. Think about the last time you heard a story about a community leader who broke consent. Think about the…

Ask the team: Edging vs edge play

Only by pushing your own boundaries (make sure you read that carefuly), can you hope to expand your horizons and start to enjoy new things.