How to have more casual sex

The difference in interest for casual sex is negligible. Clark and Hatfield had one pretty major flaw in their study.

Is Polyamory for you?

I decided to create a bit of a question list for you to sit down and ponder, to decide whether non-monogamy is really something you should be trying out *at this time*.

And we’re (finally) back!

Sorry to everyone for the month of silence: BT dropped the ball and we are only now back online in a steady capacity. Recording has started for the podcast with episode 1 due to go out next week on everyone’s favourite topic: Jealousy. Want to be in the podcast? Got any questions, comments or advice?…

Poly and the future

Regardless of whether poly relationships are going to be legally recognised, securing the rights of those practicing alternative lifestyles will be an interesting one

Self care

Sorry for the silence these last couple of weeks: I was unable to breathe due to a chest infection, which led to my having no energy to get a piece up. Combine that with the moving and everything, you can see how busy I have been.

5 BDSM Based Tips for Management.

advice the kink scene can offer to vanilla people, specifically in management. I thought through some power exchange relationships, changed ‘Dom’ to ‘Boss’ and the rest just kind of flowed…

The V-Day War!

To hell with chocolates, flowers, chocolate flowers and florets of chocolate being sold in mind boggling quantities

Online dating how-to

One of the most common questions I hear asked is “How Do I Meet People Who Are Into X?”

Rope Allergy.

This is why treating your raw jute is a good idea and being a Chemistry graduate, I would be remiss if I didn’t do it with SCIENCE!!!

Communication Skills

Be prepared to explain why you need it, why you feel you should get it, but step 1 is “I have this need.”